How to Have a No-Strings Attached Affair

One of the basic facts about relationships and marriage is that sometimes, one or both parties will have an extra-marital affair. The reasons for the affair may vary greatly, but affairs are simply a fact of life that will probably never go away. Another basic fact about affairs is that there are usually strings attached. No-strings attached affairs are basically unheard of, and even if you are lucky enough to stumble into one, there's still a chance of getting caught.

The reason no-strings attached affairs are so rare is because when you have an affair you're dealing with another human. And humans have feelings and emotions and minds that are prone to changing at any given moment. In many cases, people have affairs with someone who isn't also married. They might tell you they're only in it for physical reasons, or that they'd never jeopardize your family life, but things can change. It isn't that uncommon for an unmarried participant in an affair to develop feelings and want you to leave your spouse.

Talk about strings! What are you supposed to do when all you wanted was a temporary escape or a feeling of being wanted and now this person wants to be with you for real? Meeting someone by chance or reconnecting with someone on social media to have an affair will rarely result in a clean break when you're ready. And if that person happens to be single with nothing to lose, you can be pretty much assured it won't end in a clean break.

The key to really finding a no-strings attached affair is to find someone who wants the same things as you and has the same amount to lose as you. The best way to do that is to find a structured system that connects married people with other married people. Some people refer to these as "married dating" services, which is essentially what they are.

The primary benefit of a married dating service is that you can have your affair and you can have it with absolutely no strings attached. Think of all the possible ways that being caught having an affair can mess up your life. What would it do to your reputation or your finances? What would your kids think?

If you really feel that there is no other option but to have an affair, be smart about it and find the perfect person through a reputable married dating service. You will be so happy that you did.