How To Keep Your Man From Cheating on You

The fear that many women in a relationship have is that of losing their man to another woman. Is there a way to 'affair proof' your relationship and keep your man from cheating on you? What should you do to keep your man from cheating?

1. Love the right man! Some men seem to have the cheating gene embedded in them... and they will cheat on you regardless of what you do. This particular type of man has other deep-rooted issues that he solves (for a while) by having affairs... and nothing you do will change such a man. The emotional high that he gets from cheating on you is not comparable to anything else that you bring into the relationship. To stop such a man from cheating on you... you leave him!

2. Your daily interaction should draw him to you. We all relate to others in different ways but you need to relate with your man in a way that makes him love and respect you more and more each day. You must convey to him in everything that you do that he matters and so do you (on an equal basis). You should thus be heard AND respected... and so should he. Being aggressive or manipulative to ensure that you get your way all the time will drive him away from you. While being overly submissive so that only what he wants matters will make you increasingly angry and him increasingly disrespectful... a situation that is ripe for an affair. To keep him from cheating on you learn how to relate with him so that you both matter in the exchange. If you don't want to do something then let him know why you don't want to do it (calmly) but listen to why he wants you to do it. You should be able to disagree without being nasty or agree without someone feeling taken advantage of. Compliment him and let him know how you feel... and graciously receive the same from him without you feeling a need to make the compliment less by saying how undeserving you are of it. You are valuable... and so is he; so let your relationship reflect that in every way.

3. Be the right woman.. We often think that if we were pretty enough or tall enough or 'whatever else we tell ourselves' then he wouldn't cheat on us. But the truth is that if you teach him to respect you... and to know that there are consequences to his bad behavior then cheating would be less rampant than it currently is. So regardless of how you look... teach him to respect you! It must be clear to him that you love and respect yourself... and that he needs to do the same if he wants this relationship to go anywhere. He cannot think that cheating will be okay or a forgivable indiscretion with you... he must know without a shadow of doubt that it will kill your relationship.

To keep your man from cheating on you, make sure that you communicate to him by how you react and deal with him on a daily basis that cheating is a no-go zone for him. Cheating is not usually an event but a progressive end to the disrespect he has for you... so nip disrespect in the bud.

This article is brought to you by FREE PERSONALS.